How Does The Rest of Your Life Work?

By Alfred Tanya


It is time. Your career has run its course, your young children have flown the nest and for the past couple of years you have been thinking about what's to come.

Possibly it is Florida for you with straightforward winters, boats and shuffleboard. Possibly it is a townhouse inside the city with coffee shops about the corner, theater and opera on a whim. Possibly you will settle as close as you may to the grand youngsters.

Inside the late 1970's, contemplating retirement immediately after 30 years inside the navy, my mom and dad, stationed in the Washington Navy Yard began taking lengthy weekends, investigating those parts of the country that looked promising. My mom had been a navy wife following my dad from port to port, moving thirteen times with 5 youngsters. It had been a hectic life, glamorous at times, undoubtedly full of adventure but never ever had there been a residence. She had in no way noticed a tree grow.

Her dream was a spot inside the country exactly where she could have a horse. My dad wanted absolutely nothing far more than to assist make her dream come accurate.

They looked in New England and felt the winters could be too cold. They looked in South Carolina and felt a bit too northern for the south. They looked here and there, taking lengthy weekend trips till they planned a brief two hour drive towards the Blue Ridge Mountains in Virginia and discovered Madison County. I was in my 20's in California and my mom began sending me pictures of stunning farms which had old farm houses in have to have of renovation. Most had been fully out of reach financially, (more than $150,000) but I could tell the excitement was creating. 1 day I got a call telling me that they had bought the old Graves residence location in near Rochelle. It had an old brick farm residence on 22 acres using a massive red barn and also a pond full of bass and bluegill. They would call it St. Clair, a household name.

Last week I was visiting my Dad. Two of my sisters had been there. As we sat inside the living room of this elegant house that has been in our loved ones for a lot more than 30 years now, we began going by way of the scrap books.

You'll find my mom and dad, wonderfully fit with barely a hint of gray, posing using a pitchfork, beaming. The just before and following photos are striking as they turned "this old house" into their gorgeous household. There's my sister's wedding album, and mine using the huge white tent set up next to the residence. You will find the grandkids floating on noodles inside the pool, now in their 20's and 30's with youngsters of their own. There is certainly my mom on Henry, her amazing Morgan horse that she loved for 20 years and rode all more than the hills and mountains of Madison County.

You can find Gus, Muppet, Tess, Joe and Meg, all of the lucky dogs that lived pleased, full lives at St. Clair.

My mom passed away from a sudden stroke this past January. She and my dad had been married 60 years, 30 inside the Navy and 30 on the farm exactly where they spent the rest of their lives. St. Clair was a magnet that brought my 4 sisters and me to Virginia each and every summer for our reunions and ultimately to live close sufficient for an effortless check out, fifteen minutes for me. Thirteen grandchildren will have life time memories of summers at St. Clair and every of us knows that this charming small spot inside the country answered perfectly for a happily ever following for Mom and Dad.




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